• Still Punishing Yourself for the Past? It May Be Time to Forgive Yourself

    By Jennie Drollinger • October 7, 2026
    How Self-Forgiveness Helps You Let Go of Guilt, Shame, and Regret Without Letting Yourself Off the Hook Learning how to
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  • Shoes, Crystals, or Books? What I Chose to Write About for DearReader.com

    By Jennie Drollinger • September 30, 2026
    When Someone Says, “Write About Anything,” Suddenly I Have Nothing to Say I was recently invited to write a guest
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  • Are You in Control of Your Life? The Truth About Boundaries, People-Pleasing, and Learning to Say No

    By Jennie Drollinger • September 23, 2026
    Does your life feel like it’s yours… or like you’re constantly showing up for everyone else first? So, I should
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  • Why Couples Argue Over Small Things: 3 Ways to Communicate Better in a Relationship

    By Jennie Drollinger • September 16, 2026
    Relationship Communication Tips from Our Mini Therapy Session with Dr. Phillip Pistole on Emotional Triggers, Conflict Resolution, and How to
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  • Who Are You, Really?

    By Jennie Drollinger • September 9, 2026
    When Life Changes, Roles Shift, and You’re Left Wondering Who You Are Now Let’s Talk About the Question We Avoid
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  • the science of love

    The Science of Love: Are We in Love with Love Itself?

    By Jennie Drollinger • September 2, 2026
    Why smart, self-aware people still fall for the wrong relationships—and what it actually means to love well Let’s Talk About
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  • From Road Trips to Red Carpets

    From Road Trips to Red Carpets: How We Ended Up Hosting America’s Favorite Couple (and Why Your Vote Actually Feeds Families and Saves Oceans)

    By Jennie Drollinger • August 26, 2026
    There are moments in life where you blink a few times—maybe even laugh out loud—because it cannot be real. 💫
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  • Healing from Narcissistic Abuse: What If Finding Yourself Is the Second Chance You’ve Been Waiting For?

    By Jennie Drollinger • August 5, 2026
    (How Coach Kyle Miller Helps Survivors Rebuild Self-Trust, Create Healthy Boundaries, and Build a Life They Truly Love) What if
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  • Totally Timeless: Why 80s Teen Movies Still Own Our Hearts (And Always Will)

    By Jennie Drollinger • July 22, 2026
    There’s something about 80s teen movies that just stays with you. Maybe it’s the crimped bangs, the jean jackets, or
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  • forgiveness in relationships

    The Transformative Power of Forgiveness in Relationships: How Letting Go Creates Deeper Love, Healing, and Second Chances

    By Jennie Drollinger • June 24, 2026
    There’s a moment in every relationship where you have a choice. You can hold on… or you can let go.
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  • When Love Comes Back Looking Different

    When Love Comes Back Looking Different: Ways to Reconnect After Growth (Without Repeating the Same Breakup)

    By Jennie Drollinger • June 17, 2026
    Sometimes the second chance isn’t a rewind. It’s a remix. There’s a version of love we’re taught to expect. The
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  • The Relationship Vision Blueprint

    The Relationship Vision Blueprint: How to Get Clear on the Partner You Actually Need (Not Just the One You Imagined)

    By Jennie Drollinger • June 10, 2026
    The List I Once Made… and Why It Was All Wrong When I was a teenager, I remember sitting cross-legged
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  • Is Listening the New Love Language?

    Is Listening the New Love Language?

    By Jennie Drollinger • June 3, 2026
    Why Feeling Heard May Be the Secret to Stronger Relationships There is something quietly powerful about being truly heard. Not
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  • The Best 80s TV Shows: A Nostalgic Journey Through Cartoons, Sitcoms, and Classic Television

    By Jennie Drollinger • May 27, 2026
    The 1980s were a magical time for television. Back then, watching TV wasn’t something you did on demand. It was
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  • Love Where You Least Expect It: Real Stories of Finding “The One” in the Most Unlikely Places

    By Jennie Drollinger • May 20, 2026
    Why Finding Love in Unexpected Places Still Works If you’ve ever been told you’ll “Meet someone when you least expect
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  • people pleasing and authentic life

    Stop Trying to Please Everyone: The Life-Changing Lesson I Wish I’d Learned Sooner

    By Jennie Drollinger • May 13, 2026
    How Letting Go of People-Pleasing Can Help You Find Your Authentic Life There’s a question people love to ask on
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  • Our First Book Signing: Cookies, Cassette Tapes, and a Bakery Full of Second Chances

    By Jennie Drollinger • May 6, 2026
    The morning As Sure as the Stars met readers for the very first time There are moments when you realize
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  • Love Didn’t Fail—Timing Did: Why Second Chances Happen Later

    By Jennie Drollinger • April 29, 2026
    When the Right Person Meets the Wrong Time Have you ever wondered why some relationships don’t work out the first
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  • Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal

    Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal: How to Heal from Heartbreak, Restore Your Faith, and Find a Second Chance at Love

    By Jennie Drollinger • April 22, 2026
    Heartbreak can feel like a death, even when nobody died. If you’re nodding right now, come a little closer. Picture
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  • The Difference Between What I Felt and What I Said

    The Difference Between What I Felt and What I Said

    By Jennie Drollinger • April 15, 2026
    Love needs communication, not just chemistry. If I’m honest, the hardest conversations in my life weren’t the loud ones.They were
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    Did I Miss My Chance at Love? Why I Started a Podcast at Midlife (and Moved into My Husband’s Office to Do It)

    By Jennie Drollinger • April 8, 2026
    So, you wanna start a podcast? No. LOL. At least, that’s what I thought when the idea first came up.
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  • The 80s Soundtrack of Slow Love: How Mixtapes, Dances, and Music Shaped a Generation of Romance

    By Jennie Drollinger • April 1, 2026
    When Love Took Its Time There was a time when love didn’t arrive instantly. It didn’t come with a typing
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  • a night to remember

    We Met at 15 and 17… and Found Each Other Again at 51 and 53: What Really Happened

    By Jennie Drollinger • March 25, 2026
    A true 1980s love story behind “As Sure as the Stars” about timing, heartbreak, and reunion. What really happened between
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  • The Quiet Kind of Love: Favorite Quotes from As Sure as the Stars That Stay with You

    By Jennie Drollinger • March 18, 2026
    When Love Doesn’t Shout—It Lingers Some love stories don’t crash into your life with fireworks and theme music. They don’t
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  • Sedona, AZ: Have You Ever Had a Place That Knows Your Soul Before You Do?

    By Jennie Drollinger • March 4, 2026
    Some places don’t just welcome you. They recognize you. Sedona, AZ is one of those places for me. Long before
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  • Have You Ever Wondered How to Write a Book… and Accidentally Ended Up Living One?

    By Jennie Drollinger • February 25, 2026
    I never thought I would write a book. Not ever. I love books. I escape into them. I live inside
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  • Before Texting, DMs, and “Seen”: The Lost Art of 80s Love Letters

    By Jennie Drollinger • February 18, 2026
    The first line I ever fell in love with didn’t flash on a screen. It arrived folded in thirds, carrying
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  • Love, Step kids, and Second Chances… What Could Possibly Go Wrong?

    By Jennie Drollinger • February 11, 2026
    If you’re reading this, you’ve probably found yourself falling in love again. Maybe you’ve even married that special person. Now,
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  • Brooklyn Lit Us Up: Our Unforgettable Experience Sponsoring the 2025 IACP Summit

    By reaganlewis • February 4, 2026
    Some days don’t just pass—they nudge you right into the center of the hustle and bustle of NYC and makes
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  • Craving a Cozy Throwback? These 80s Second Chance Movies Bring All the Heart and All the Hope

    Craving a Cozy Throwback? These 80s Second Chance Movies Bring All the Heart and All the Hope

    By Jennie Drollinger • January 21, 2026
    Some movies stay with us because they remind us of who we want to become. The 1980s gave us a
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  • When Love Circles Back

    When Love Circles Back: How God Was in Every Detail of Our Second Chance Story

    By Jennie Drollinger • January 14, 2026
    Have you ever felt your heart crack in places you didn’t even know could break? Or wondered if fairy tales
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  • Forty years of friendship. Four friends. One Epic ship. A Mediterranean dream that finally caught up with us.

    Forty years of friendship. Four friends. One Epic ship. A Mediterranean dream that finally caught up with us.

    By Jennie Drollinger • January 7, 2026
    A Mediterranean Cruise That Took Forty Years to Plan Italy: Where Friendship Met Fresh Pasta and Lemon Everything Rome *
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  • Stop Setting Goals You Don’t Even Want!

    Stop Setting Goals You Don’t Even Want!

    By Jennie Drollinger • December 31, 2025
    A Practical Guide to Intentional Goal Setting and Building a Life That Feels Like Yours We live in a noisy
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  • Unlocking the Power of Crystals: A Journey of Love, Heritage, and Healing with Rose Quartz (And Why My Pockets Are Always Heavy)

    By Jennie Drollinger • December 24, 2025
    Crystals are not just something I collect. They are how I carry home, memory, and love in my pocket. 💖
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  • 10 Relationship Podcasts That Heal Hearts, Build Better Love, and Bring Hope Back to Life

    10 Relationship Podcasts That Heal Hearts, Build Better Love, and Bring Hope Back to Life

    By Jennie Drollinger • December 17, 2025
    Your Ultimate Second Chance Audio Guide When Love Circles Back, So Does Hope If someone had told teenage-me—big 80’s hair,
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  • Winning America’s Favorite Couple 2025:

    Winning America’s Favorite Couple 2025: The Retro 80’s Love Story That Proved True Love Always Finds Its Way Back

    By Jennie Drollinger • December 10, 2025
    Our Three Key Takeaways:  “Real love stories? They’re basically the mixtapes of the soul.”Truthful storytelling never goes out of style
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  • The Biggest Secret to JOY — Are You Missing It?

    By Jennie Drollinger • December 3, 2025
    This is for the one holding back tears in the grocery store line. The one scrolling late at night, feeling
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  • What Made 80’s Fashion So Iconic? Are You Ready to Relive the Magic? Let’s Go!

    By Jennie Drollinger • November 26, 2025
    Step into a time machine—set the dial to 1984. The radio’s blasting “Lucky Star”, your hair’s reaching sky-high thanks to
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  • Can We Talk? Why Men and Women Misunderstand Each Other—And How to Finally Get It Right

    Can We Talk? Why Men and Women Misunderstand Each Other—And How to Finally Get It Right

    By Jennie Drollinger • November 19, 2025
    Ever feel like you and your partner are having two completely different conversations? Discover why communication between men and women,
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  • Start Your Day Grounded

    Start Your Day Grounded: How Meditation and Morning Mantras Can Help You Clear the Noise and Claim Your Power

    By Jennie Drollinger • November 12, 2025
    “You should sit in meditation for 20 minutes every day—unless you’re too busy. Then you should sit for an hour.”
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  • We Can Still Hear the Cassette Playing

    By Jennie Drollinger • November 5, 2025
    How Four Friends, Two Rival Schools, and One 80’s Dance Hit the Replay Button-40 years Later…and the Roads That Raised
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  • How Love, Luck, and Science Explain the Invisible Threads That Pull Us Back Together

    By Jennie Drollinger • October 29, 2025
    From Walkman’s to God-winks—why twin flames always find their way back to Side B. Some loves aren’t just memories—they’re the
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  • Journaling Is Cheaper Than Therapy… Until Someone Reads It

    Journaling Is Cheaper Than Therapy… Until Someone Reads It

    By Jennie Drollinger • October 22, 2025
    What she found wasn’t just a notebook… it was me on paper. It was supposed to be a normal teenage
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    Second Chances & Soggy Tissues: The Romance Reads That Wreck Me Every Time

    By Jennie Drollinger • October 15, 2025
    The Best Clean Romance Novels About Love Lost and Found, With All the Feels and None of the Smut Ever
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  • Why Second Chances Heal Us More Than We Know: What Brené Brown Taught Me About Repairing Real Relationships

    By Jennie Drollinger • October 8, 2025
    Second chances aren’t always about romance. Sometimes they’re about redemption, resilience, and the courage to show up when it’s uncomfortable.
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  • The Soundtrack of Second Chances: Songs that Heal – 80’s Mixtape Version

    The Soundtrack of Second Chances: Songs that Heal – 80’s Mixtape Version

    By Jennie Drollinger • October 1, 2025
    How “Mr. Mister” and “Stevie Nicks” became part our second-chance soundtrack—from lost love in 1985 to finding each other again…
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  • Second Chances in Small-Town Love: Why Going Home Can Heal the Heart

    Second Chances in Small-Town Love: Why Going Home Can Heal the Heart

    By Jennie Drollinger • September 24, 2025
    You can run from your past—but it won’t let go until you face it.That’s the brutal beauty of going back.
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  • Have You Ever Written a Love Letter

    Have You Ever Written a Love Letter and Never Sent It—Not Because You Didn’t Have a Stamp

    By Jennie Drollinger • September 17, 2025
    Let’s Explore Love Letters Never Sent Until Now: The Healing Power of Unsent Words and Why Writing an Unsent Letter
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  • Guess Who’s Back?

    By Jennie Drollinger • September 10, 2025
    The Psychology of Rekindled Love—and What Happened When I Gave My Old Flame a Second Chance Love That Doesn’t Stay
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  • What’s the Secret to Finding Hope Again?  Ways to Reignite Your Spirit (and Why Our Love Story Proves It’s Possible)

    By Jennie Drollinger • September 3, 2025
    HOPE (hōp) Verb. To have belief + courage and the desire, to place trust in life’s plan, to want an
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  • Could You Love Them Again? Revisiting the Long-Lost Love

    By Jennie Drollinger • August 27, 2025
    When the “One That Got Away” Returns — A Real-Life Rekindled Romance Story Have you ever thought about the one
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  • America’s Favorite Couple: How Our Lost & Found Love Story Landed Us in the Quarter-Finals

    By Jennie Drollinger • August 20, 2025
    From a Disconnected Phone Line in 1989 to a Chance at $20K, Variety Magazine, and Sharing Hope with second chances
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  • emotional healing after heartbreak

    Emotional Healing After Heartbreak

    By Jennie Drollinger • August 13, 2025
    Discover the best emotional healing resources after heartbreak—including books, scriptures, therapy options, and personal reflections. Find comfort, connection, and hope
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  • Lessons in Love, Loss, and Finding Your Way Home

    The One That Got Away… and Came Back, Lessons in Love, Loss, and Finding Your Way Home

    By Jennie Drollinger • August 6, 2025
    I Never Thought I’d See You Again There’s a moment that plays on repeat in my mind—like a well-worn cassette
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  • loving yourself the key to healthy relationships

    Loving Yourself First: The Key to Healthy Relationships

    By Jennie Drollinger • July 30, 2025
    “It is safe for me to look within. Each time I look deeper into myself, I will find incredibly beautiful
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  • When Love Returns Faith in the Waiting

    When Love Returns: Faith in the Waiting

    By Jennie Drollinger • July 23, 2025
    There have been chapters in my life when waiting became its own kind of prayer—a quiet, persistent hope that lingered
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  • why second chance love heals us

    Why Second Chance Romance Heals Us

    By Jennie Drollinger • July 16, 2025
    Second chance romances carry a unique allure, drawing us into stories of redemption, resilience, and a belief in the transformative
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  • The Tapestry of Connection How Memories Weave Our Relationships

    The Tapestry of Connection: How Memories Weave Our Relationships

    By Jennie Drollinger • July 10, 2025
    Memories are like colorful threads in a grand tapestry—each one a moment that shapes our relationships and reminds us of
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  • Summer is Here! Second Chance Summer Reads

    By Jennie Drollinger • July 3, 2025
    Now that Summer is here, it’s the perfect time to dive into heartwarming stories of love, redemption, and second chances.
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